Book Review: Not Nice by Dr. Aziz Gazipura

Not Nice by Dr. Aziz Gazipura is a transformative book for anyone struggling with people-pleasing and the fear of disappointing others. Gazipura, a clinical psychologist, breaks down the hidden costs of excessive niceness—such as anxiety, resentment, and lack of self-respect—while providing actionable steps to develop assertiveness and confidence.

The book explores why people struggle to say no and fear confrontation. Through practical exercises and real-life examples, Gazipura helps readers unlearn the habit of prioritizing others’ comfort at their own expense. His approach is direct yet compassionate, encouraging readers to set boundaries, speak up, and embrace their authentic selves.

Unlike traditional self-help books that simply promote confidence, Not Nice delves into deep-seated fears and limiting beliefs. It challenges readers to let go of guilt, stop seeking approval, and take control of their lives. Engaging and empowering, this book is a must-read for anyone ready to break free from excessive niceness and start living with confidence and authenticity.